Something I have realised in the past few months is that life is a lot easier when you don’t play the victim. Shit happens, everyone has some great hard ship of varying extremes going on and a lot of time the people who aren’t complaining have it worse off then the people complaining about their lives. As someone who has often played the victim it just makes you bitter and jealous which is a massive waste of energy. We are all the centre of our own universe, yes and everyone deals with situations in different ways regardless of whether they are right or wrong. This year I want to leave all the shit from previous years behind because my gosh it is boring! I don’t want to think of all the time I wasted being unhappy and playing this tragic figure watching my friends awkwardly try pity. The time for the DMC is no more! Maybe I have donned a very Brighton attitude of wanting a ‘flow of positive energy’ but it’s a lot easier. It’s taken me such a long time to realise that maybe the situation won’t change – families are always dysfunctional, people are toxic! Everyone experiences this you’re not the only victim so stop waiting for someone or something to change, change your attitude and maybe you’ll realise that you will have more fun and less regrets. Life may fuck you over but don’t let it fuck you up.
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